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The religious leader who told the patient she had to forgive and stay with her husband for child pornography is an extreme interpretation of Religion. The bible prescribes that Sexual immorality called porneia (Hebrew) is a valid reason to divorce. It was later Catholic teachers and theologists that changed the rules, which are NOT based on the Bible. Christianity is much more fair, to be honest. But forgiveness is recommended, but not necessarily staying in that marriage.

I do not know the BYU, or overall church stats, but According to Pornhub's 2021 annual statistics review revealed that worldwide 32% of porn viewers were women.Mar 25, 2022. As far as masturbating- everyone is doing, or has tried it. Let’s not be sexist, or judgemental.

The trauma caused to the betrayed partner is gut wrechingly agonizing. Its maniacal and malicious injury period.

Betrayal Trauma is real. A CSAT is such a great resource. The lying is as bad as the actions. We all were lied to, in addition to cheated on. I'm so sorry for everyone who finds themselves here. We are all healing. ❤

Weird that you make this gender specific. Women can be addicted to porn. Why be sexist? Shouldn't it say "effects on spouses"? As a woman, I'm offended.

God is so good 🙌🏻🔥

My relationship was going downhill and couldn’t figure out why until I found out he was watching porn and spending time watching instead of looking in his partner what he wanted somewhere else that’s what affected me. Some guys use it and don’t leave their partners in the shadow they get excited with their partners but if he is forgetting u and doing what’s he’s doing he has a problem and he isn’t worth finding a therapist either.

Guys deny it when confronted that makes it more of a betrayal that they are lying and that is when trust in that person is lost. I had to ask him why he dis that and the answer was it poped on my phone and then I had to show him he searched it up so I made my conclusion he was lying and that brought the relationship to the edge. It’s more than just watching that it’s the lie and you can’t trust someone that might do worse after that.

Thank you for sharing your amazing story Roy!

What a great video!!! That being said, I’ve come to the conclusion that, with porn being so accessible, it affects everyone of us. It’s destroying relationships everywhere and it can’t be cured unless we take the internet down. What’s really frightening is that children can access porn at any given time. I liked life before we had the internet

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Really good stuff

Recently found out that my husband is addicted to porn, and you've literally listed all of the effects that I'm experiencing. I don't know what to do at the moment. We have 2 kids, 5yrs and a 3 months old

Wow! Your window analogy was spot on

ThAnk you

This is so important, god bless these courageous brothers and sisters for sharing.

I can't deal with this anymore. I don't know what the truth is. The extreme emotional abuse

Sex we are taught/educated more about the universe and the ocean floor. It’s completely natural, yet we cloth are bodies and even talking about it is taboo. You may blame Porn or whatever I blame the human condition.

Great topical work here

After years of 100% rejection and having a plutonic marriage (my husband is a lying, abusive porn addict - extreme verbal, physical and emotional abuse - I have been in a Normas amount of weight, suffered a horrible debilitating physical injury that left me in a wheelchair for a little while, I have been extremely depressed and sad, and for two years I have been quiet about having a constant bleeding colon - could be diverticulitis, ulcerative colitis, etc. and I believe it’s all due to the extreme rejection and verbal abuse. this morning my cat died and he was really old and it was his time to go, I really and feed him because he’s out of this house. There’s no one in this world that cares if I am alive or dead every day. I love God and I’m just really tired of being here on the earth. Due to my disability unable to work and I’m so trapped and I have to rely on my husband to support us. If something happens to him and he can’t work, there is absolutely no way I can survive. I have tried for years to get him to stop lying to me and I have found a porn on the computer and on his phone and everything else for many years and he continues to lie and things are horribly bad. I’m just so tired of all of it. I am grateful that I have two cats and three dogs that love me. I remember years ago when I believe that he really loved me and I dealt with his alcohol addiction at that time and he recovered from that but I had apparently other addictions that I was unaware of for many years including a porn addiction. I’m really tired and have felt like a used piece of toilet paper for many years.

Thank you for describing this so accurately and in such detail. You have helped to validate me and the trauma I’m experiencing and given me a point of reference that I can share with my husband to help him to understand the trauma and pain and confusion I am experiencing. And to help him understand the healing that I/we will need to move forward and to forgive and to process what has happened. 😢❤thank you

Thank you for sharing your story of hope The Lord has helped me in so many ways through His atonement to continue in the marriage. Including giving me strength & desire to forgive .

My husband and I have been together 6 years. We have had a wonderful, full relationship!! He has a very high sex drive and this was never a problem. Within the last year (I’m turning 50 this year) I have gained weight and my sex drive has dropped dramatically. I have recently found that he is watching porn, something I have never seen before from him. It hurts so much because I am so lost right now and not sure how to fix myself. I’m really trying to balance my hurt with my trust in him. Does he have a problem? How do I get back to myself? Is this as serious as it hurts??

The Steps don’t help with Narcissistic’s

The Psalms are comforting

Trust needs to be earned by Henry Cloud

I disagree that 12 Steps help everyone. My X Alcoholic who was sober from alcohol for 20 plus years hid his secret sex addiction from me for 13 years. I endured Gaslighting, pathological lying, financial betrayals and legal betrayal

I am delivering a sermon to you 🙏😊 please read Consistently Pray for forgiveness, guidance in a good (positive) direction, and for help against evil. Pray to be saved from hell (whatever that may be). Pray for your friends and your family too, it only takes a minute or so/less at a time to pray. Do it and your life will slowly get better, or maybe quickly. It probably just depends on you and the kind of person you are/have been. Don't wait until its too late and you have to suffer the consequences of built up bad karma from immoral acts/unrepented sins. Maybe together we can help make the world a better place by changing ourselves for the better, and changing things around us for the better. And addressing/thanking the CREATOR, LORD GOD at the beginning and end of your prayers would be a good idea 😊 Or just be my friend if you don't want to say the prayer 😄 I'm trying to help you get right with the LORD 🙏 Amen. I have worded a short prayer for you to say if you are not sure what words to use, it may not be the best but here it is 😊 '' CREATOR, LORD GOD, Please forgive me and my friends and my family for our immoral acts, please help guide us in a positive direction and please help us against evil. Please save us from Hell and have mercy on our souls. Thank you CREATOR, LORD GOD. Amen. '' Please say this at least once a day for at least a month, do it longer if you want to and can 🙏 You should prostrate yourself if you don't want to do spoken prayer, or do both 🙏😊 Please worship the LORD GOD and not any idol. Please put your hands together 🙏 bow your head and say this prayer: "CREATOR, LORD GOD, please know that I worship you and not any idols. Thank you for everything CREATOR, LORD GOD. Amen" Say ' Om Namah Shivaya ' out loud or in your head 108 times, or try to do it 1008 times 😊 try to do it everyday if you want repeat this aloud for as long as you want to, try to do it for like an hour a day or say it in a prayer "Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner" You can also say this prayer once a day or repeat it aloud as many times as you would like to: "Hail Mary, full of grace. The Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death, Amen." 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Thessalonians 5:16-18 "Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you." Philippians 4:6-7 "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." "O Blood and Water, which gushed forth from the Heart of Jesus as a fount of mercy for us, I trust in You!" Repeat this aloud at least 3 times or as many as you want, do it everyday if you can I apologize for all the words 😊 I know how it may look

Religion really pisses me off. A sin is a sin, none worse than another. All are equally wrong in Gods eyes.

We went through pre marriage counseling and in the very beginning I said I had a huge problem with porn and strippers. To me it’s cheating 😡 and he agreed with me and said when someone is married they shouldn’t be even doing that. And I feel for it how stupid I found out about an affair he had 2 years ago and low and behold I found out he had strippers and went to step clubs behind my back and lied about it. I filed for divorce and he swore he would never do porn again and a few months later I had a feeling and I was right. Why can’t you be honest with someone you created such hurt and devastation for your wife. They have no idea how hurtful this is and I will honest never get over it 31 years of nothing but lies 😢

There is absolutely no shame worse than the shame of being a sexual pervert. You feel so absolutely worthless. An utter failure.

Deep tms was usless

Leaves u lethargic tired,unmotaved ,depressed,flat,etc.

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These people are so brave. I am proud of every one of these people. I am so proud of all of them. They are set free.

Its 2023 still no change

Im crying as we speek watching this its 2023 march still no change

As a religious missionary I help run a 12 step addiction recovery program (after going through it myself 20 years ago). I came across this documentary both online and with a DVD included in a book I purchased titled "Understanding Pornography Addiction & Betrayal Trauma Manual" at a local bookstore. I have already shared the book to some people and will definitely be sharing this video. To everyone who participated in putting this documentary together, and for all of you therapists, whether in the video or who are watching this, thank you for all you do! You are the shepherds of our day.

My brain refuses to heal,not just a young person issue

Not just a young person issssissue trust me

Gen Z must find it very easy to get addicted with rapid cell phone uses.

Women read lovey dovey novels. Now that hurts me! Sob!

Oh! The things! I don't think!

Awesome message that more people need to be aware of. Blessings in Jesus Christ's name

Buying other human being bodies for pleasure is not an addiction.

Wow! Thank you so so much!